The Kids in the Hall

We've all encountered people with sweatshirts or tee-shirts that say 'ask me about my grandchildren.' I, at some point in the past unknown to me, have been apparently fitted with one that says 'tell me about anything; I don't mind.'

I was in the local grocery yesterday afternoon behind a fellow carrying a lot of stuff in his bare hands, without the benefit of a shopping cart or a basket. I've had that happen, where I get ambushed in the baked goods by freshly made oatmeal and raisin cookies while I sort of have my hands already full (A reach exceeds grasp kind of moment). 

Have there been times I've parked the item I originally came into the store to get and bought a lot of other stuff, taken it all out to the car, and then returned to purchase the original item? Yes, guilty as charged.

Not sure what was happening with this fellow. He was pushing a bag of charcoal briquettes in front of him but did not seem to have any meat in his hands you would normally associate with grilling (and I don't care to imagine where else he might have put it). 

When he started mumbling, from where I was behind him (I scrupulously enforce that ATM space rule when I'm in line. It will never be my hot breath you feel on your neck and vice versa) I thought he was talking to the scandal magazines alongside the gum and candy. One of the most sobering aspects of growing old is how, as I've aged, less and less of the headlines or pictured celebrities mean anything to me at all.

Anyway, Marty Mumbles seemed to be talking to the magazine with what looked like Mel Gibson and (maybe) his girlfriend as a thumbnail-sized photo on the cover. The fellow wasn't talking to Mel, as it happened. I looked up to realize, as he stacked his stuff (and '12 Items or less' became a suggestion, exactly when? I missed that memo) as high as he could on the smallest possible amount of space on the conveyor belt, he was actually talking at me. 

There was a reasonable amount of frantic head nodding and eye-blinking, not a lot of eye contact, which was of no help at all in understanding a single word of whatever he was, or wasn't, saying. All the while the cashier was scanning his stuff, he had his back to her, addressing me. I always get these guys so I just bided my time. When she announced the total, I had to point him, using the smile and nod technique (and NO sudden movements) in her general direction so that he realized the ride was just about done. 

Of course, he wasn't prepared to pay and went through his pockets looking for cash, paper, and coins, before defaulting to a credit card, all the while jabbering away to anyone (else) who made eye contact.

When I handed the cashier my sole item, she remarked that she hadn't seen me 'in here with that guy before' as if I made it a practice to collect strangers in the night. I thought about telling her just that and then decided silence, in my case, was golden. Besides, if I dawdled, I'd be late for the cookout, and that would never do.
-bill kenny