My last original thought died of loneliness so here's something I wrote some time back for what has proven to be the very best decision of my entire life. And if you think you've read it before, you have; it's a sentiment that bears repeating, over and over again.
Today, on this date in 1977 at 1020 in the morning in the Offenbach am Main Rathaus in (West) Germany, Sigrid Schubert and I were married.
Forty-five years ago.
Sigrid often says it feels a lot longer than that but that's because the Germans use the metric system. Right? I mean, what else could it be?
How lucky can one guy get, eh? I've never known what she saw or sees in me (aside from a great personality, rapier-like wit complementing a puckish sense of humor, and a body like Adonis (Joey Adonis from West Orange near Prospect Plains)), all hobbled by a nearly crippling sense of modesty that is my lifelong cross to bear; oh, and delusions, almost forgot those) but she is my entire world.
She is everything I have wanted to be or to do and she makes me a better man by knowing that she loves me, often despite who I am. I can remember the most minute of details of that day and have driven her and both of our adult children almost to distraction by recounting them incessantly AND on an annual basis, so I'll skip them here, but they know what will happen, just not when.
I hope with all my heart wherever in this world you find yourself that you also have and keep someone who will hold your heart forever as she has mine. I don't remember often enough to tell her I love her though I will today and vow to be better every day we have together for all the days that remain. Happy Anniversary, angel eyes.
-bill kenny
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