You
might think it's early to mention the November elections for six seats on the
City Council and nine on the Board of Education. Maybe.
Usually, I spend much
of my time considering choices for City Council but as the son of a lifelong schoolteacher,
I want to write about the importance of choosing wisely for the next Board of
Education.
The
buzzword this election in these post-pandemic times is “parental rights” in relation
to schools, children, and education, The phrase is on everyone's lips, even
here as Matt Grahn reported recently in The Bulletin. The trouble is, I can’t seem
to find a definition of exactly what are “parental rights.”
Nevertheless,
one of the two parties' slates for the Norwich Board of Education makes it a
prominent plank in their election platform. Their
Town Committee Chairman says, "Parental rights is a strong concern, even
for people who aren’t parents yet or won’t have children, as they
recognize the impact “hands-on” boards of education can have on children
locally and all over the country.' (My emphasis added.)
That's as may be, but an article in Chalkbeat which calls itself,
'essential education reporting across America' reports 'Most Americans
aren't satisfied with public schools-but most parents like their child's school.' It
would seem the difference in evaluations by an adult with children in a public
school (a parent) and an adult with no children is startling, to say the least.
Let
me offer some personal perspective: Our two children were products of the
Norwich Public Schools, attending Buckingham (now a grassy knoll), Kelly (then
Middle) School, before enrolling in and graduating from Norwich Free Academy.
Our
daughter, the younger of the two, graduated from Kelly in 2001 so my frame of
reference is more than a bit dated, but my memories are still fresh about our involvement
at parent-teacher conferences, as well as participation in the TPO (or was it
PTO?) meetings for one or the other and I or my wife spent many, many
evenings enjoying coffee and conversation at Board of Education meetings in the
Kelly library (all before the renovations and expansion).
What
I do NOT remember
is swarms of grown-ups exercising their “parental rights” by attending
parent-teacher conferences, participating in PTO meetings, or getting engaged
in many, to say nothing of any, classroom activities their
child's schools and teachers organized throughout the school year.
I
can also recall Board of Ed meetings with fewer than six parents in attendance
for a school system with thousands of children enrolled. I'm assuming
the meetings too often conflicted with nights Seinfeld was on TV, or a Massachusetts
sports team was playing.
Sorry
for the snark. Not.
“Parental
rights” must be inseparable from concomitant obligations and responsibilities
which in our house meant making sure homework was completed (looking at you,
Patrick), the next day's assignments were prepared (Michelle), and
accomplishing everything my wife and I could do to help our children
succeed.
Between
us, I fear that definition of “parental rights” went the way of the dodo and
clean air, but I strongly urge everyone who is a parent, or anyone thinking of
becoming a parent, to demand of every candidate seeking a seat on the Board of
Education a definition of “parental rights” and how they would foster and
further involvement and engagement of all parents which is critical to the
success of every child in Norwich Schools.
Do not let them offer you a cliché-make
them define their terms.
-bill kenny